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Dr. John Spencer Ellis: Divorced Men Get Two Pieces of Advice, and Both Miss the Point

   When a man's marriage ends, the advice arrives fast and it's always the same two items. Get a good attorney. Talk to someone. Both are sound. Neither addresses what the research says is actually happening to him. Nobody says get your bloodwork done . Nobody says fix your wake time before you do anything else . Nobody says count your drinks honestly for two weeks . And those three have mortality data behind them. The case for a third phone call Two independent research teams, using different methods on different datasets, reached the same conclusion. Sbarra and colleagues (2011) pooled 32 studies covering more than six million people and found a hazard ratio of 1.30 for mortality in divorced adults, with stronger effects in men. Shor and colleagues (2012), analyzing 104 studies , arrived at HR 1.30 independently. A systematic review of 7,881,040 individuals found divorced and separated men carried higher all-cause mortality, plus stronger cancer and cardiovascular...

Dr. John Spencer Ellis Divorce Recovery Programs for Men Over 40 (Health, Wellness, Career Updates)

  How Men Over 40 Can Turn Divorce Into a Complete Life Reset: Health, Career, and Confidence Reclaimed By Dr. John Spencer Ellis , Leading Men's Longevity Expert Every accomplished man who has been through divorce knows the specific shape of the aftermath. The identity built around family life needs reconstruction. The financial architecture requires rebuilding. The social circles that formed during marriage often shift. The career that supported the household needs reassessment. The body that quietly declined during years of dividing attention across too many priorities suddenly demands attention. And underneath all of it, a specific question keeps surfacing: what am I actually building now? For men who understand what this inflection point actually represents, divorce becomes one of the rare opportunities in adult life to genuinely redesign — not just repair — the shape of the years ahead. The men who use the opportunity deliberately often produce the specific transformation ...