Dr John Spencer Ellis Divorce Recovery Coaching Programs for Men - Health, Lifestyle, Career Reboot
The Divorce Was Two Years Ago. So Why Do You Feel Worse Now? Men brace for the difficult part during the proceedings. The lawyers, the disclosures, the custody negotiation, the day you move out. Then it ends — and a surprising number of men report feeling worse eighteen months later than they did in the middle of it. That's not a psychological failure. It's a lagging indicator. Divorce is more than a legal process for men , and the physiological bill arrives on a delay that almost nobody warns them about. Two research teams, one number Sbarra and colleagues (2011) pooled 32 studies covering more than six million people and found a hazard ratio of 1.30 for mortality among divorced adults, with stronger effect sizes in men. Shor and colleagues (2012), analyzing 104 studies , arrived at HR 1.30 independently — different method, different dataset, same answer. A systematic review of 7,881,040 individuals found divorced and separated men carried higher all-cause mortali...